If you’re starting to experiment with your partner, then it can be difficult to find things that you both enjoy. If you haven’t had much experience together, then it can be worth trying out new things together to learn what each other like. One thing that you might want to try together is DDLG.
If you haven’t heard about DDLG, it stands for Daddy Dom Little Girl. Essentially it is the practice of of one partner taking on the caring role with the the other person in the relationship taking on the role of the child. We say DDLG as an umbrella term, but you also get other variations of this where the woman may be the dominant in the relationship.
Although DDLG relationships have got some bad press for being a little weird, the reality is that they’re actually pretty normal. People assume that there must be some trauma in the persons life for them to be comfortable doing this kind of thing, but in reality it is surprisingly normal. There does not need to be any sort of weird thing gone on in a persons life for them to want to participate in DDLG. It can just be stemmed from a fantasy!
If you’ve never tried this type of thing, then don’t worry. I know that it can be a little overwhelming but it really doesn’t have to be. Just ensure that you practice playing safe when you are experimenting with your partner. You should also have a safe word so that if one of you feels uncomfortable whilst playing, you can back out at any time.
One of the most popular things for people to try in the bedroom is to try a dom and submissive dynamic – it seems that the majority of women are interested in trying this. Not only women, but sometimes men like to give up the dominance they may have in their general life and let their partners take control. This is completely normal and something that you may want to try!
Overall, a DDLG relationship may be too much for some people. If you live the life constantly then it can be a little overwhelming. But it is something that you could consider trying every now and then to see if you like it!